Would you bear to risk it upon them?

This geek in the picture is the frequent guest of Lotus on Water videos, and also my boyfriend.

And this is Oprah, you should be able to recognize her as the richest African-American woman who gives positive and inspirational speeches.

Now, where’s the link, you asked? Years ago, my friend introduced me The Secret, the book that explains the Law of Attraction, and how to use it to your advantage. Basically, it’s saying to use positive thinking to attract the things you want into your life. And one of the biggest spiritual teacher during that time (maybe also now), was Oprah. We frequently watched her shows, and how she encourages people to pluck up their courage to pursue their dreams.

So this geek of mine is a talented engineer (still am), he was a high flyer in his dying industry. He wasn’t doing exactly what he wanted to do, and since this industry is going down, there is absolutely no point in carrying on. So I did what I did- I asked him to quit, which turned out to be a major disaster.

He was jobless for more than a year. No matter how much we meditate and visualize, things weren’t turning around and his bank was slowly depleting. A year may fly for some people, but during that time, every single day of my life was drowned in guilt that felt too long than it should.

Long story short, we found Lotus on Water and our jadeite and months later, he’s working as a design engineer, and the rest is history.

I may speak too much of the negativity, too little of the success, but that’s because my motive isn’t to convince the successful people to tweak their loose ends, I’m trying to tell those people who feel they are down and out and that nothing’s gonna help- I feel you, and you know what? Things can change for the better.

As for the positive current situation, what more do I need to say? A genuine, happy smile like this from your loved one warms the heart a million times more than the satisfaction you can actually get from your own accomplishments.

For us, solely maintaining a positive mindset did not bring me to a better place, it was Lotus on Water’s fengshui together with positive mindset that did the work. Yes, I admit a lot of people out there did not use Lotus on Water items but have also claimed their success, but when someone you love are stuck in the rut and is too afraid to purse their dreams, you know deep down in your heart if he chooses to give up what he has right now to go for it, there is always a certain percentage of possibility that he might eventually end up failing and never to be able to stand back up on his feet again.

Do you want to take that chance? Or you do you want to spend some money to get that little something that might aid him in his success, and pushing it to its peak? Because for me, there is nothing in the world that is worth more than seeing him happy, knowing that his life is better.

I’m sure almost everyone has someone they love- family, parents, children, and partners. In fact, that’s why we are still around, for everyone and everything we love. You may bear to risk your own life, but can you bear to risk the life for someone you hold dearly to heart, to see them suffer just because you can’t bear to part with the money?

Think about it.